One of my favorite events from our week in the city was the Alumni Mixer, it gave the students a chance to chat and learn more about the city and the industry from Alumni who have made the transition from their college town to the big city. Going into the event it felt daunting and I was unsure I would be able to talk and connect with so many professionals, yet I surprised myself. Oftentimes, tasks seem much scarier yet as you dive in and find your flow you learn more about your abilities.
On one of our free days in the city, I found myself at the MET and amidst the gilded frames and stunning paintings there was an advertisement for the museum promoting “The art of the afternoon visit”. When people would meet simply to connect, whether they spent an afternoon sipping tea or shared gossip around the table, people would establish time together with the intention of spending time with one another. While in today’s society we do have happy hours that seem to draw quite the crowd, it feels as if the art of the afternoon visit is dissipating. With social media and devices making it easy to connect and have everyone at the ease of a text, call, or dm face to face interactions seem to become less and less.
So, in a world of social media interactions instead of interactions in real society, how do we combat it all and find a balance? The more we establish connections, the more we are able to learn about ourselves. I have become the person I am today because of the relationships I have formed over the years. My female friends brought me a confidence I never imagined I could have, a continual uphill battle, however when you have people on your side advocating for you it becomes easier for you to learn how to advocate for yourself. Understanding your abilities, your intelligence, your talent! Advertising is a people's industry, one that thrives on human connection, so go the extra mile to build that relationship, advocate for yourself, and put yourself out there…even if it feels frightening. While you're at it, call your friends, tell them you love them, and schedule an afternoon visit…it's worth it!
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